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Episode 5

Male childhood sexual abuse narratives: A psychotherapist’s perspective with Jeremy Sachs

Interviewed by Dr. Ailise Bulfin – recorded on 10th August 2026. Edited with permission from the speaker.

Jeremy Sachs is an integrative psychotherapist, Narrative Exposure Therapy practitioner, and lecturer. He is the author of An Intersectional Guide for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse and Their Allies (Routledge, 2025), which won the British Psychological Society’s 2026 Book Award, and the editor and contributer of the forthcoming Clinical Perspectives on Working with Men and Shame (Routledge, 2026).

Jeremy lectures on the Advanced Diploma in Psychosexual Therapy at the NAOS Institute and delivers training for Rape Crisis Scotland. He is also the presenter and producer of The Trauma Talks Podcast, which explores the everyday realities of living with a wide range of traumatic experiences.

He spent more than six years at SurvivorsUK, where he designed and led dedicated group therapy programmes for men, boys, trans, and non-binary survivors of sexual abuse and sexual violence. Alongside his teaching and training, Jeremy runs a private practice, offering both in-person and online psychotherapy to people of all genders. His work focuses on relational difficulties, psychological pain, and recovery from sexual violence. 

In this episode, we discussed many things, such as:

  • Male survivors and the difficulty of disclosure, including the shame compass. 
  • Reporting abuse and institutional responses: What usually happens when survivors try to report abuse. 
  • The importance of intersectionality, rather than treating all victims/survivors as having identical experiences. 
  • Fictional representations of CSA, including  Sayaka Murata’s 2018 novel Earthlings and the 1996 movie Sleepers
  • The need for positive representations of sexuality, including the lack of representations for autistic, trans, binary, and other minority groups in young people.

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Resources that Jeremy mentioned:

Professionals mentioned and their works related to CSA:

  • Baroness Louise Casey 

Casey, L. (2023). Baroness Casey review: Final report: An independent review into the standards of behaviour and internal culture of the Metropolitan Police Service. Metropolitan Police Service. 

  • Jeremy Sachs’ book

Sachs, J. (2025). An intersectional guide for male survivors of sexual abuse and their allies: Masculinity reconnected. Routledge.

Note: Jeremy’s book has recently won the British Psychological Society 2026 Book Award.

  • Jeremy Sachs’ upcoming book

Sachs, J. (Ed.). (in press). Clinical perspectives on working with men and shame: Masculinity in progress. Routledge. 

Fictional works related to CSA mentioned:

  • Earthlings

Book (2020), written by Sayaka Murata

  • Sleepers

Film (1996), directed by Barry Levinson

  • Euphoria

TV series (2019), created by Sam Levinson

  • Small Things Like These

Film (2024), directed by Tim Mielants, based on the novel by Claire Keegan (2021)

Other fictional works mentioned related to sexual violence :

  • I May Destroy You 

TV series (2020), created by Michaela Coel 

  • No Hard Feelings 

Film (2023), directed by Gene Stupnitsky 

  • Baby Reindeer 

TV series (2024), created by Richard Gadd

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